Can you imagine the world without cheating? Me not. I do not have enough imagination to understand how much we will lose or how much we gain by ceasing to lie to each other. We lie every day, and the ability to bring a person to clean water will be useful to everyone. We consulted and came up with seven ways to help you understand what a person really is.
There is such a film - "The invention of lies." It tells about a world in which no one knew how to lie. Once, one person in this world had something broken in his brain, and he uttered the first lie. In order not to spoil the impression about the film, I will not tell you further and I advise you to watch it in order to learn how our world could look without lies.
And since in the real world lies and deceit are in abundance, here are a few ways how to deal with them and bring a person whom you do not trust to clean water.
Watch a person in a critical situation
When a person has to act in a critical situation, he cannot dissemble or play. He does not have the ability to use masks, and he will certainly act as his instincts order.
Look at the attitude towards service personnel.
People who are offended by life, often break down at the service staff. Waiters, cleaners, sellers - they all get. If a person whistles or clicks the waiter with his fingers - this is the first sign that your interlocutor is an idiot.
Watch your body language and intonation.
Finding materials about body language is easy. Liars can be recognized by several signs:
- Pause in the conversation.
- Eye abduction when answering a question.
- Change the topic of conversation.
- Justify, even when you do not blame them.
- Often concern the face.
Of course, you should not overdo it and follow every gesture of the interlocutor. But sometimes this small cheat sheet helps to bring out clean water.
Gossip about common friends
We are more or less like gossip. And, unfortunately, often do not know in them measures. After gossiping about mutual friends, you will see with your own eyes how much shit can spill out of a seemingly good person.
Lend or borrow money
And although we have already said that lending money to friends is the last thing you need to think about, but by borrowing or lending money to a person, you can learn a lot about it.
Take a trip together
Extreme way. If you are already thinking about how to bring a person to clean water, then go with him on a trip - not the best idea. But, having spent some time alone, you will see all his cockroaches.
Tell a secret
Telling a secret, you check the person's ability to keep secrets. If you do not trust him, you can tell a trifling secret or a made-up secret, just to check whether he will run to retell it further.
Were there situations in your life when you needed to understand what a person really is? What did you do?